I’m a librarian by day, and resources are my jam. I go crazy about a good book, an inspiring podcast, or an entertaining video. I can get lost exploring an amazing website for hours, and I have the ultimate respect for distinguished experts in their fields. I also get pretty excited about products that live up to their promises. Here are some of my favorites, curated for sex-loving learners like me.
- How to Share: Insights Inspired by Esther Perel on Fantasies, BDSM, and Non-Monogamy
In this final post reflecting on lessons from Mating in Captivity, I get to the details that can set my sex life on fire: communication, fantasies, BDSM, and non-monogamy. You know, the juicy stuff. - How to be a MILF: More Wisdom from Esther Perel
This is the second post in a three part series describing how my husband and I maintain desire in our relationship, interlaced with more of Perel’s points from Mating in Captivity. This post details how we strive to keep the flames of desire burning amid the chaos of parenting young children. - How I Get Horny for My Husband: Applying Esther Perel’s Advice on Eros
Esther Perel’s book Mating in Captivity is chock full of advice on keeping desire alive in a committed relationship. This is part one of a three-part series on how we apply her wisdom in our marriage to keep us craving each other year after year. - The Best Sexplanations Episodes from Dr. Doe
If you haven’t heard about Sexplanations yet, you’re in for a treat! Dr. Doe takes sex education to the next level with over 400 videos on all things sexual. These 11 episodes really showcase her style. - My Go-To Sexy Songs for Getting in the Mood
You know how some songs just get you in the mood, in that perfectly aroused state of mind? These songs are my go-tos, the songs that I play when I want to be feeling like my sexiest self. - Best Spotify Playlists for Sex: Music is Essential for Making Love!
We always put on some kind of music to accompany our bedtime routine. Spotify offers playlists for every type of sex you can imagine, from ethereal yoga sounds to kinky EDM for BDSM. - Five Fascinating Books About Sex, Love, & Relationships
These books have been instrumental in our relationship, and have helped to shape my modern views about sex as well. These are the five I come back to time and time again.